What do you actually feel when someone in your creative community gets the gig, the grant, or the recognition you wanted? And why do admiration and envy so often arrive in the same breath?

In this re-released favourite from the archives, we take a closer look at creative envy. That tricky mix of admiration, aspiration, and longing that can surface when you watch peers succeed. Discover some ideas on how to stop comparison from stalling your progress, reframe jealousy, and transform those complex feelings into fuel for your own art.

There’s a detour through Greek mythology, a lost song Lyndon found on Dropbox 12 years after writing it, and a frank conversation about gatekeeping in the Australian arts scene – and why healthy competition requires a healthy environment to exist in.

You might want to listen if:

• You’ve ever sat in the audience at a book launch, a gig, or a gallery opening and felt equal parts inspired and deflated

• You want to understand why aspiration can be a roadmap rather than a reminder of inadequacy

Note: We are re-sharing this popular episode while recovering from a family illness. Original air date: September 2, 2025.

Pain In The Arts is a weekly podcast about the reality of creative life. Hosted by Breallyn and Lyndon Wesley. One of them never knows the topic until recording begins.

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